How to Support Someone After a Cancer Diagnosis

Coping with an illness is tough for anyone—especially when someone you know and love received a cancer diagnoses. While emotional support is key during this time, anyone looking to reach out to these individuals need to do so in a healthy and constructive way. Learn how to best support someone after a cancer diagnosis and help them though this trying time.

Ask for Permission

Handling the emotional aftermath of a diagnosis requires just as much space as it does compassion. It’s crucial that you only make the effort to visit after ensuring that your loved one wants company. Make it clear that it’s alright for them to say no if they need more time, and you’re only a phone call away if they need you.

Be a Good Listener

Everyone processes these trials differently, and providing a listening ear is a key part in helping your loved one come to terms with it. When they confide in you, don’t try to ignore any uncomfortable topics or feelings. No matter what emotions they—or you—feel, embrace everything you both experience in a comforting, engaging way. Even if you’re too emotionally raw to handle listening yourself, you also have the option to refer them to a support group.

Make Time to Check-In

Even if your loved one isn’t ready to answer the phone, making a point to call them will let them know that you’re there if they need you. Make sure to let them know that you’ll occasionally call to check up on them and that you’ll set aside the time to listen. When making these plans, it’s important you remain flexible to properly accommodate when your loved one needs support.

Treat Them the Same

It’s important that you don’t change how you treat your loved one as a result of the diagnosis. Their condition shouldn’t get in the way of your relationship, as they’re the same person they’ve always been. Respect their privacy, but a sense of normalcy can also have a great therapeutic effect.

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